With my personal coach’s program we do cycles of 90-day goals…but more important than the goal are the thoughts I will need to be thinking to generate the feelings that will drive my action toward the goal I have. My current 90-day goal is To Create More Connection With My Husband! So, what that looks [...]
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This is just for NOW, not FOREVER!
This is a phrase that has personally helped me through some very challenging days. Sometimes you have to take a deep breath and tell yourself, everything is going to be ok. This is just for NOW, not FOREVER! You won't always feel this way. It's temporary. It's a season and seasons do change. Joy comes [...]
Are You a Pastor, Church, or Ministry?
Are you a Pastor, Church, or Ministry? Would you like to have a certified Christian life coach on hand to support your church family as they navigate the challenges and stresses of life and relationships that come to all of us? Some church members find it difficult to “air their laundry” to someone who will [...]
For the Mama navigating a challenging relationship with a child
Are you challenged by your relationship with your child? I think we can all agree that God is the PERFECT parent. He carefully fashioned these two beloved children, giving them the very best of Himself and then placed them in the most beautiful, peaceful, and perfect environment where they could flourish. Every need was fully [...]
Operating from the RENEWED MIND is the highest form of living!
We have two parts of our brain. A primal part that is programmed for three main things: to avoid pain, to seek pleasure, and to conserve energy. Once we are followers of Christ, our spirit man is completely made new. We are a new creature. But we must now do the daily work of renewing [...]
Let Go & Be FREE!
The prison door is always open for us, but we must choose to walk through! When things have been one way for so long, the familiarity can cause a strange sense of false comfort. You get used to being in a constant state of fight or flight or survival mode. But we cannot heal without [...]
Do You Feel Like You Are Failing As A Mom Some Days? Me, too!
Curiosity is My New Favorite Emotion!
Curiosity is becoming my new FAVORITE emotion! It’s such a mindset SHIFTER because it immediately takes the focus off of YOU & puts it on the other person! Your brain begins to ask questions like, “I wonder what’s going on with them?” And, “I wonder what they must be feeling to make them say that [...]
Happy Wife, Happy Life…Really?
I'm sure you've heard these common phrases, "HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE" & "If Mama ain't happy, nobody's happy." But I've been thinking about why such phrases irk me a bit and really seem like a myth. And in all honesty, downright selfish. I'm as guilty as the next wife/mama in times past making everyone in [...]
Remind Yourself that You’ve Survived!
Sometimes when I'm going through a difficult time, I like to take some deep breaths and remind myself, that I have survived all of my hardest and darkest days. I'm still here. It's really a testament of God's faithfulness and goodness to me! I don't know where I'd be without Jesus. And the last few [...]