Have you ever made passive aggressive comments to your adult children when they call or spend time with you about how disappointed you are in how little they call you or spend time with you? I get it. You’re hurt. You’re sad. You don’t know how you got to this place. What you crave is [...]
Category: Thought life
Are You a Pastor, Church, or Ministry?
Are you a Pastor, Church, or Ministry? Would you like to have a certified Christian life coach on hand to support your church family as they navigate the challenges and stresses of life and relationships that come to all of us? Some church members find it difficult to “air their laundry” to someone who will [...]
How Judging Others Causes YOU Pain
"To love another person is to see the face of God." -Victor Hugo, Les Miserables If you know me well, you know that Les Mis is one of my most favorite stories, so much so that we named our daughter Cosette. It's a beautiful story of redemption woven through many people's lives. How they hurt [...]
Bring the JOY back to your mothering!
Did you know that your child’s, teen's, or adult child’s behavior is a result of a feeling they don’t know how to deal with? Just like our actions come from a feeling we are having and a negative thought that is causing that feeling. We may not be able to be in their head to [...]
It ran in your family until it ran into YOU!
It ran in your family until it ran into YOU! Remember, child of God, that you have been adopted into a NEW FAMILY and you can enjoy all the benefits and privileges that come with your new lineage! There’s no such thing as a generational curse on YOU! For Christ has REDEEMED you from the [...]
God IS working ALL things together for your GOOD!
I truly believe it when the Word says that God is working ALL THINGS together for your GOOD! Yes, even with that painful situation you may be going through right now that you cannot see how that could be possible. None of us are immune to challenging times. But He has made a way for [...]
Need a Dose of Dopamine?
How cool is that?! It’s a win-win situation 🙂 Even though I’m an introvert, I always try to compliment the checker at the register or waitress at a restaurant because I figure it might be the only nice thing they hear all day. Obviously, our brain knows when it’s not genuine, so be sincere, but [...]
Do You Feel Like You Are Failing As A Mom Some Days? Me, too!
Having Compassion for Your Spouse’s Inabilities
Part of marriage (or any relationship for that matter) is understanding that your spouse is not always going to be running at full capacity. Life hits us each a little differently and usually when one of you is weak, the other is strong. But sometimes both of you will be feeling weak, and that's ok, [...]
Our Children Are Not Responsible For Our Feelings
Our children are not responsible for our feelings. Neither is anyone else for that matter. We create our feelings every single day with our own thoughts. Sometimes we say, "Well, they said ______________ and THAT made me feel ___________________." But in reality, nobody has the power to make us feel anything but us. We get [...]