This is a HUGE MYTH that I need to clear up…
Just because this is the way things are RIGHT NOW, it doesn’t mean they will ALWAYS be this way.
Here me out on this…
Maybe you and your adult child have struggled for years to understand each other.
Now that they are out of the nest, communication has become less and less.
Maybe you thought you’d be CLOSER.
You may not see them as much as you’d like.
You may tend to compare your experience to other moms with grown kids and how often they spend time with their adult children.
Possibly you might NOT HAVE HAD ANY communication at all in quite some time.
The enemy may tempt you to believe that this is the way it will always be.
That you won’t be happy again until you just MOVE ON.
I want you to know that there’s a BETTER WAY.
There’s a way to FEEL FULFILLED in your current life while still HOLDING YOUR FAITH for what your FUTURE RELATIONSHIP CAN LOOK LIKE.
I want you to know that there’s a way to GRIEVE WHERE YOU CURRENTLY ARE, while also BUILDING YOUR FAITH.
God gave us the GIFT OF OUR IMAGINATION for a reason!
The enemy wants to twist that gift by causing you to sink in despair, but the Word of God says in Romans 4:17 “(as it is written, “A FATHER OF MANY NATIONS HAVE I MADE YOU”) in the presence of Him whom he believed, even God, who quickeneth the dead and calleth those things which BE NOT as though THEY WERE!”
It does not say that Abraham DENIED that he was currently without a child, but that by faith, he conducted himself LIKE GOD, who calls those things which are not currently displayed before us, as though they are!
Because God lives outside of earthly timeframes. He sees the beginning from the end!
When we are sick, the Bible doesn’t say to lie and say, “I am not sick.” It says to DECLARE “I am STRONG. I am WHOLE. ‘By His stripes I AM HEALED.”
I want you to know that God DESIGNED YOUR child for YOUR LIFE and YOU for THEIRS! He made no mistake! They are to be INTRINSICALLY LINKED.
I’d love to teach YOU how to GET UNSTUCK and PROCESS THROUGH your current emotions (how you FEEL about the current state of your relationships) AND how to be BUILT UP IN FAITH for the BRIGHT FUTURE He has ALREADY DESTINED for YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN!
With God, NOTHING SHALL BE IMPOSSIBLE, but first we need to GET YOU READY for that JOYFUL RECONCILIATION! You need to become that Mama who does not seek validation from her children, but only from God!
Hit the COACH WITH ME LINK TODAY and let’s set up a time to chat! I can’t wait to meet you and hold safe space for YOUR MAMA HEART! ~With Much Love, Jenny xoxo
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