I'm thinking of this concept as it applies to marriage, but it can be a good way to view any relationship in our lives. The enemy loves division and works to influence the separation of any godly union, whether between spouses, parents and children, siblings, friends, or co-workers. If he can succeed at getting us [...]
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Tips For Enjoying Christmas During Estrangement
The Word of God IS God!
There's a big difference between "knowing" someone from afar and knowing them intimately, right? You have the ability to know your spouse, children, family, and friends because you have spent time in their actual presence, not just seeing a pic of them on the red carpet. You have spent time cultivating a relationship with them [...]
Thankful IN it all!
See this girl right here? I'm really proud of her! This is me standing backstage watching worship in a hidden hallway completely alone unaware the cameraman walked by. I was spending time thanking God before I stepped on a stage to share my marriage restoration testimony. It took courage, vulnerability, and honesty. It took pressing [...]
Don’t grow OLD together, stay YOUTHFUL together!
What's the point of marriage if you're not ENJOYING it?! We are not promised to stay forever young, but I do believe the Word promises us that God will renew our YOUTH! The goal of marriage is not to find someone to grow old with but rather someone to remain youthful with! In the midst [...]
Why We Should Never Speak Negatively About Our Spouse
***Disclaimer*** In this post I am NOT referring to wives who are being abused by their spouses. It is the bravest first step you can take by confiding in someone outside of the situation. Ask for help when faced with a situation you may not know how to navigate according to the Word- Proverbs 24:5,6 [...]
Is Motherhood Your Highest Calling?
Over the years I have spoken with many mamas who feel "mom guilt" when they have other interests, desires, and dreams in addition to the high calling of raising their arrows. Why is that? Let's talk about it. I believe it's because we have been taught that if you are a Mama, the calling to [...]
Want to Grow Your Church, Ministry, or Business, but Feeling STUCK?
As ministers, we can so easily shift into frustration and despair when church attendance is not growing, we’ve made a mistake in implementing a “program," lost a valuable staff member or volunteer family, or shame ourselves for our human failures. The pain comes because we are not ALLOWING and PROCESSING THROUGH all the EMOTIONS that [...]
Giving Yourself the BEST Gift Ever
Are you ready to make an investment in YOURSELF? We don’t invest in coaching because we think it will change those around us, it will most definitely have ripple effects, but we do it because it’s a great way to LOVE ourselves. If the only two things Jesus commands us to do are to love [...]
Comfort Food? Let’s Talk About It
We don’t overeat and binge on sugar or snacks because we have a sugar or salt addiction, we do it because we haven’t learned to PROCESS and FEEL our EMOTIONS! Because it is always our THOUGHTS that create our EMOTIONS and our EMOTIONS that drive our ACTIONS. Ask me how I know? For the majority [...]