See this girl right here? I'm really proud of her! This is me standing backstage watching worship in a hidden hallway completely alone unaware the cameraman walked by. I was spending time thanking God before I stepped on a stage to share my marriage restoration testimony. It took courage, vulnerability, and honesty. It took pressing [...]
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Don’t grow OLD together, stay YOUTHFUL together!
What's the point of marriage if you're not ENJOYING it?! We are not promised to stay forever young, but I do believe the Word promises us that God will renew our YOUTH! The goal of marriage is not to find someone to grow old with but rather someone to remain youthful with! In the midst [...]
Why We Should Never Speak Negatively About Our Spouse
***Disclaimer*** In this post I am NOT referring to wives who are being abused by their spouses. It is the bravest first step you can take by confiding in someone outside of the situation. Ask for help when faced with a situation you may not know how to navigate according to the Word- Proverbs 24:5,6 [...]
Want to Grow Your Church, Ministry, or Business, but Feeling STUCK?
As ministers, we can so easily shift into frustration and despair when church attendance is not growing, we’ve made a mistake in implementing a “program," lost a valuable staff member or volunteer family, or shame ourselves for our human failures. The pain comes because we are not ALLOWING and PROCESSING THROUGH all the EMOTIONS that [...]
How Do We Do Anything in Life?
How do we do anything in life? We decide to. First and foremost, anything we’ve ever accomplished began with a decision. And EVERY decision we make is based upon how we think that decision is going to make us FEEL! Want to be a more patient mom of little ones? You decide to. Want to [...]
It’s Time to LET GO!
Letting go of old thought patterns, pain, and fear can seem more uncomfortable than keeping them close. We get better at it when we welcome the discomfort and choose to believe there’s a better way. To the natural mind it seems like letting go of unforgiveness is not taking care of yourself, but it’s really [...]
Just Because a Marriage Has Been LONG, Doesn’t Mean That It Is GOOD
Just because a marriage has been LONG doesn’t mean that it is GOOD. Many couples co-exist for decades and just because they are still together doesn’t mean they are both feeling fulfilled. Many hang on till their kids leave the nest because they don’t want them to experience any upheaval. But then what? How will [...]
Why You Will Be Mistreated in Marriage
***Disclaimer: By “mistreated” I am not speaking about abuse*** Being hurt by our spouse or hurting our spouse is the last thing we ever think of when we are planning our wedding, right? Instead, we have dreams of how wonderful life will be once we are finally married. But you will be mistreated by your [...]
Who You LONG to Be Is Really Who You ARE!
When you long to be different and show up in a different way in your relationships, that is who you REALLY ARE! That person you long to be is your TRUE SELF wanting to break forth! As a coach, I help women get FREE from guilt, shame, and regret for how they’ve shown up in [...]
Hey There!
There are many different types of coaches out there, but if you’re looking for a coach that has a firm foundation of the Word and the Spirit to come alongside you, I’m your girl! You know, the prayer of agreement is so powerful! Jesus said in Matthew 18:19 "Again I say to you, that if [...]