Want to Enjoy True Relationships?

God knows us intimately and we have within us the need to know others intimately, too. It's really something sacred, to be allowed into someone's inner world. It requires vulnerability for both of you. Very often, we have high expectations of those we love. Of course, it's understandable to have some expectations of how they [...]

What Does Freedom Feel Like?

My heart is bursting with JOY at the thought of helping more women get FREE! Coaching changed my life! What I have learned has helped me to step into the best version of myself! A version that I love being! Not because it's easy, but because it's simple. Because living in truth is where TRUE [...]

How Do We View Conflict?

I'm thinking of this concept as it applies to marriage, but it can be a good way to view any relationship in our lives. The enemy loves division and works to influence the separation of any godly union, whether between spouses, parents and children, siblings, friends, or co-workers. If he can succeed at getting us [...]

Thankful IN it all!

See this girl right here? I'm really proud of her! This is me standing backstage watching worship in a hidden hallway completely alone unaware the cameraman walked by. I was spending time thanking God before I stepped on a stage to share my marriage restoration testimony. It took courage, vulnerability, and honesty. It took pressing [...]

Don’t grow OLD together, stay YOUTHFUL together!

What's the point of marriage if you're not ENJOYING it?! We are not promised to stay forever young, but I do believe the Word promises us that God will renew our YOUTH! The goal of marriage is not to find someone to grow old with but rather someone to remain youthful with! In the midst [...]

Why We Should Never Speak Negatively About Our Spouse

***Disclaimer*** In this post I am NOT referring to wives who are being abused by their spouses. It is the bravest first step you can take by confiding in someone outside of the situation. Ask for help when faced with a situation you may not know how to navigate according to the Word- Proverbs 24:5,6 [...]

Want to Grow Your Church, Ministry, or Business, but Feeling STUCK?

As ministers, we can so easily shift into frustration and despair when church attendance is not growing, we’ve made a mistake in implementing a “program," lost a valuable staff member or volunteer family, or shame ourselves for our human failures. The pain comes because we are not ALLOWING and PROCESSING THROUGH all the EMOTIONS that [...]

How Do We Do Anything in Life?

How do we do anything in life? We decide to. First and foremost, anything we’ve ever accomplished began with a decision. And EVERY decision we make is based upon how we think that decision is going to make us FEEL! Want to be a more patient mom of little ones? You decide to. Want to [...]

It’s Time to LET GO!

Letting go of old thought patterns, pain, and fear can seem more uncomfortable than keeping them close. We get better at it when we welcome the discomfort and choose to believe there’s a better way. To the natural mind it seems like letting go of unforgiveness is not taking care of yourself, but it’s really [...]

Just Because a Marriage Has Been LONG, Doesn’t Mean That It Is GOOD

Just because a marriage has been LONG doesn’t mean that it is GOOD. Many couples co-exist for decades and just because they are still together doesn’t mean they are both feeling fulfilled. Many hang on till their kids leave the nest because they don’t want them to experience any upheaval. But then what? How will [...]