Marriage Is Hard Work, But Not in the Way You May Think

Marriage is hard work but it’s not working on the marriage it’s putting the marriage first by working on YOURSELF. ❤️ This truth will set you FREE, friend! Because you and your spouse are involved in TWO MARRIAGES! Did you know that your spouse has HIS marriage you have YOUR marriage? Wow 🤯 Years ago [...]

Worrying About Others?

READY to become a RECOVERING CONTROL FREAK? Life is SO MUCH SWEETER on the OTHER SIDE! Where everyone gets to be exactly who they are and bonus, YOU get to be the REAL YOU! The one God destined YOU to BE! The one who is so full of PEACE and learns how to RESIST those [...]

Intimacy in Marriage is So Much More Than Sex

Are you ready to CREATE more LOVE and CONNECTION in YOUR MARRIAGE? It starts with YOUR OWN THOUGHTS about YOUR relationship and I CAN HELP! It's NEVER TOO EARLY or TOO LATE to work on your marriage! Hit the COACH WITH ME link and let's set up a time to chat about how I can [...]

Remembering Our Spouses Chose Us as Adults

For the most part, our family members didn't get to choose us. They love us because we are their child, sibling, parent, niece, aunt, or cousin. They may LOVE who we are, but the connection was one that was made for them. It's so important to remember that our spouse chooses us as an adult [...]

Want to Enjoy True Relationships?

God knows us intimately and we have within us the need to know others intimately, too. It's really something sacred, to be allowed into someone's inner world. It requires vulnerability for both of you. Very often, we have high expectations of those we love. Of course, it's understandable to have some expectations of how they [...]

How Do We View Conflict?

I'm thinking of this concept as it applies to marriage, but it can be a good way to view any relationship in our lives. The enemy loves division and works to influence the separation of any godly union, whether between spouses, parents and children, siblings, friends, or co-workers. If he can succeed at getting us [...]

Thankful IN it all!

See this girl right here? I'm really proud of her! This is me standing backstage watching worship in a hidden hallway completely alone unaware the cameraman walked by. I was spending time thanking God before I stepped on a stage to share my marriage restoration testimony. It took courage, vulnerability, and honesty. It took pressing [...]

Don’t grow OLD together, stay YOUTHFUL together!

What's the point of marriage if you're not ENJOYING it?! We are not promised to stay forever young, but I do believe the Word promises us that God will renew our YOUTH! The goal of marriage is not to find someone to grow old with but rather someone to remain youthful with! In the midst [...]

Why We Should Never Speak Negatively About Our Spouse

***Disclaimer*** In this post I am NOT referring to wives who are being abused by their spouses. It is the bravest first step you can take by confiding in someone outside of the situation. Ask for help when faced with a situation you may not know how to navigate according to the Word- Proverbs 24:5,6 [...]

Why You Will Be Mistreated in Marriage

***Disclaimer: By “mistreated” I am not speaking about abuse*** Being hurt by our spouse or hurting our spouse is the last thing we ever think of when we are planning our wedding, right? Instead, we have dreams of how wonderful life will be once we are finally married. But you will be mistreated by your [...]