Need A Boost?

Hey, Friend! Hope you're having a great week and not feeling too stressed 🙂 Remember that HAPPINESS is always circumstantial but JOY is a choice! What's YOUR JOY LEVEL? Your thoughts are just molecules in your BODY! Your brain is like a pharmacy that releases chemicals that are felt in YOUR BODY! Remember to ALLOW [...]

How Do We View Conflict?

I'm thinking of this concept as it applies to marriage, but it can be a good way to view any relationship in our lives. The enemy loves division and works to influence the separation of any godly union, whether between spouses, parents and children, siblings, friends, or co-workers. If he can succeed at getting us [...]

Do You Feel Under-Valued or Unseen?

Do you ever feel under-valued and unseen? Whenever we seek validation outside of God and outside of ourselves, we will always come up short. It's wonderful to be recognized and validated, especially by those closest to us. But the more we feed on the truth of God's VAST LOVE for us and fill our hearts [...]

The Word of God IS God!

There's a big difference between "knowing" someone from afar and knowing them intimately, right? You have the ability to know your spouse, children, family, and friends because you have spent time in their actual presence, not just seeing a pic of them on the red carpet. You have spent time cultivating a relationship with them [...]

What’s Your Relationship Status?

A relationship is a connection, association, or involvement between two entities. We tend to only think of relationships as connections between people. It's usually pretty easy to evaluate our relationships with our spouse, children, family, and friends. Sometimes those relationships may be enjoying good health and sometimes they are "complicated." But as a person, we [...]

Thankful IN it all!

See this girl right here? I'm really proud of her! This is me standing backstage watching worship in a hidden hallway completely alone unaware the cameraman walked by. I was spending time thanking God before I stepped on a stage to share my marriage restoration testimony. It took courage, vulnerability, and honesty. It took pressing [...]

Don’t grow OLD together, stay YOUTHFUL together!

What's the point of marriage if you're not ENJOYING it?! We are not promised to stay forever young, but I do believe the Word promises us that God will renew our YOUTH! The goal of marriage is not to find someone to grow old with but rather someone to remain youthful with! In the midst [...]

Do You Know You are ALREADY Healed? Let’s Break it Down!

I once heard a true story about a woman who worked as a housekeeper for a very rich man her whole life. She cared for his physical needs but also grew to care for him very much and felt honored to serve him and blessed to work for him into her old age. When he [...]

Why We Should Never Speak Negatively About Our Spouse

***Disclaimer*** In this post I am NOT referring to wives who are being abused by their spouses. It is the bravest first step you can take by confiding in someone outside of the situation. Ask for help when faced with a situation you may not know how to navigate according to the Word- Proverbs 24:5,6 [...]