Don’t Give in to the Comparison Trap this Christmas

Did you know it’s okay to keep using the same Christmas decor you’ve loved for 30 plus years?  Nothing wrong with buying some new things if you truly want to but it’s also nice to experience the memories of things through the years.  It’s okay to not give in to any pressure to go out [...]

It’s okay to keep resting

Is anyone else confused about what day it is? Is the pressure of the New Year starting to creep up on you? Do you wish you had gotten more done or that you were in a different place altogether? Did you know that it's okay to keep resting? Sometimes beginning from a place of being [...]

On the 12th Day of Christmas…Merry Christmas!

While we look at the sweet image on a Christmas card and remember that Jesus came as a little babe in a manger, that is NOT who Jesus is anymore! The little frail baby or maybe you remember Him as the frail, broken, and bruised man on the cross, but while that was Him that [...]

On the 11th Day of Christmas!

On the 11th Day of Christmas... LOVE lets everyone else be... One of the most profound things I learned from my own coach is the truth that EXPECTATIONS are just pre-meditated RESENTMENTS! Because we all are human and will let each other down sometimes. But WE have to feel the yuck of resentment inside of [...]

On the 9th Day of Christmas!

Did you know that you are NOT your emotions? Whenever we hear ourselves saying things like "I am sad," "I'm so frustrated," or "I'm so anxious," it's the perfect cue from our brains to PAUSE and think about what we are really saying. And ask ourselves, "Is that true?" And then we can change those [...]

On the 8th Day of Christmas!

On the 8th Day of Christmas... GET COZY! Amidst all the hustle and bustle resist the urge to attend EVERY invite [even that nagging invite to do more chores ;)] and take some time to GET COZY! Even if it’s just for one hour! Trust me, the world will not end and the lists will [...]

On the 7th Day of Christmas!

On the 7th Day of Christmas... CREATE! We were MADE to CREATE! Cook, bake, or make something from scratch. Fashion a new garland or decorate differently than usual. Even how you wrap a present can give you a BOOST Even if it's not something anyone else will see. Just the act of using our hands [...]

On the 6th Day of Christmas!

On the 6th Day of Christmas... Where is YOUR focus? Relationships can feel strained around the holidays. Stop focusing on what’s WRONG and start focusing on what’s RIGHT! Stop obsessing over how your spouse, kids, or in-laws are doing this "thing" wrong, and ask your brain to see all the wonderful things you love about [...]

On the 4th Day of Christmas!

On the 4th Day of Christmas... Get outside! Even if it’s freezing! It’s incredible how just simply getting outdoors, breathing in the crisp cool air, and going for a quick walk can help to RESET your brain. And breathing deeply can give you a boost to finish your day STRONG! It’s all about caring for [...]