Do You Ever Struggle With Putting YOURSELF First?

“Who am I to have needs?”

This question from one of my amazing coaches to a client in our coaching community earlier this week cut straight to my heart! ❤️ 

I don’t know about you, but I hear a lot of women in particular with the same sentiments, seeming to pile on GUILT & SHAME for even having needs. 😢

We have somehow bought a “bill of sale” that makes us believe even having legitimate needs makes us weak, less of a strong woman, or incapable in some sense. 

I still sometimes fight the urge to try to attain my VALUE & WORTH by always being there for everyone (even when it has put my own health and well being at stake) and pushing myself to be almost SUPER human who is never phased by the negative stuff life throws at me. 

But, I am getting better at this 🥰 

I have had much time over the last 10 days to simply get the rest my body screamed at me that I desperately needed. 

And I was forced to process through all the negative emotions (that I’d rather ignore) in order to arrive at the place where I can truly see ALL THE MIRACLES in my life ✨🩷

From my amazing employers who fully support my need to rest, to incredible family who have taken care of me up close and from afar, to having a beautiful, peaceful cozy home and porch to facilitate recovery, and to an amazing body, which contrary to my former belief that it is somehow working against me, to know without a doubt it is an incredible self-healing machine that God designed to support me and my callings! 

I AM healthy and strong not because I FEEL that right now, but because God’s Word says I am and that He’s already made total wholeness available to me! 

I CHOOSE to BELIEVE what He has SAID, more than what I SEE! 🙌🏻 

I am forever grateful for God and His truth coupled with the support of my incredible coaches who help me keep my MIND RENEWED 🩷 

If YOU are ready for YOUR journey of TRANSFORMATION and to learn how to put YOUR needs FIRST so you can FULLY ENJOY all the ways you serve everyone around you, REACH OUT TODAY! 

I’d be honored to be YOUR COACH 🥰🩷 ~Be Blessed, Jenny xoxo

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